skipping a bit, running fast

Well the few years after we met, were great just as any first relationship. So On Sept 17, 2003 Jeff went golfing with a women. lol, I know her, and she told him that if he was serious about me then he should get me a ring. Well after a couple of beers, he did that night. I was working steady afternoons, when I got home there was a couple of candles going, flowers, a box and a note. the note said

                                 

 Just a little something to let you and everyone know your mine. How glittering and beautiful this ring looks in your eyes is how enchanting you look in MY EYES. Put it on and feel as proud of what it stands for as proud as i stand for you

Time, Hearts, Feeling, Love, warmth, Touch Together, You, Me

I know you may cry, but you are so cute when you do. Come in the room and I'll wipe them dry

So Being a girl, I did cry, it was great. 

Well the next day I phoned my mom, and read her the note. Then she said 

"Your engaged"

I said. No but she said Yes

So about 20 Min's later, my phone rang again. this time it was my mom, grandmother, and aunt.

I had to read the note again. 

and they all said 

"Your engaged"

So I had a big smile on my face. I went to work a bit early, just to go see sparky

I told him, by the way we are engaged, and will b married 2 years from today.

sparkys face was like WWWHHHAAATTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it was so funny.

Still to this day he says I never asked you to marry me. 

We were married 2 years after, and had a wonderful wedding on Aug 21 2005, and had our wedding reception on Sept 17,2005.  years after the note. 

but don't worry, the wedding was as fun as our life. and I will get to that very soon

In 2004 I found out I was pregnant. We were so happy. but it was short lived. 

One night at work, I was working in Gm in the paint shop, and Sparky was working at Lear in Whitby. I went to the bathroom and not was all right. 

So i went to my boss at the time, and told him that I was spotting and that I had to go. He looked at me with eyes of what the hell are you talking about.  Told him I was bleeding. He said. Sorry but I have to many people out and had no one to cover me. 

 I said can you send me to the nurse, maybe this is normal, and she can calm me down.

well she did calm me down, but sent me to the hospital. I phoned sparky and he came and got me. 

we went to Ajax, as the nurse said that was the best.

So we were in a room right away. and this big black nurse came in and said that I had to drink like 5 glasses of water, and could not pee. well that was fun. I did, and when the doctor came in and said that there was a problem, we knew it was not good. 

The ultrasound came back and it was not good. I had an etopic pregnancy, but he was going to try something new. he gave me a shot of chemo to try and a dissolve the pregnancy like cancer. lets just say that did not work. Sparky and I were OK with what was happening. but they say take the good out of what is bad. so we did. we were laughing in the room. 

the girl in the next room was screaming. loud. she was about 11 and had to have an enema. now i know they are not nice, but trust me, this was unbelievable.

The black nurse came in and her hair was everywhere, and she looked like someone was pulling it out. 

the little girl, was screaming like poltergeist, "get that thing out of myBUMMMMMMMM, you could almost see her head spinning. 

when the nurse came in to see us, she could not believe that that little girl was doing that much damage. 

after 2 hours of screaming  all was over. and that girl was smiling leaving the hospital  I give a lot of credit to the nurses in the er room as they have to deal with a ton of shit.

So the first night home from the hospital Sparky went and bought our first BBQ, from sears. but he had to put it together him self

I kept telling him to put it together on the balcony, but he did not listen. and sure enough, did would not go out the sliding doors. it was funny, but not to him. he had to take the side off of it.

our first fight.

the second night was a bit scary. I could not breath, and the pain was so bad. when i went to the doctors the next day, he took me into surgery right away. My tube had busted  and i had eternal bleeding, he even canceled his flight to Hawaii. 

When I woke up in the recovery room, i felt OK  i needed a drink. but the nurses there were not that nice, they gave me a little drink and some gravel and Demerol  I told them that Demerol makes me sick, but they gave it to me anyways, in my iv. and then sent me home. We were on highway 2 when i yelled, pull over, I did not get the door open enough, and you know the pockets in the doors, they hold a lot. Poor sparky had to clean it out. that was when we kept our truck very clean.

all was well after that. We waited to try for kids again. and we knew it would happen again.

but for now i had a wedding to plan. and like other wedding it was going to be fun. Sparky style

Meet the Campbell's

                                          Meet the Campbell's

So we were in Love. 

We moved in with each other, So I guess it was time for sparky to meet my parents. So we went for the drive, from our apartment in Oshawa to Pontypool. It's about a 30-40 minute drive. It was St Patrick's days, and we were going to a dance with my parents and some of their friends. at the Pontypool community center. My mom parents, Ann and Jigger were at my parents house, when we got there. Well everyone was having a couple of drinks and Sparky while lets say you could tell he was a bit nervous and had a few rye's with my dad. 

I had told my mom that we had moved in together, And i know that my mom had told him, but We did not tell him. I remember the conversation was about how hot I like it in the apartment, especially in my room. Well Sparky sat up straight and said 

"Sarah always has the heat on full in the bedroom"

My father looked at him with a straight face and said

"And how would you know"

I have really never seen Jeff stumble for words as he did that night, 

That was how my dad found out from us 

At the dance sparky got really drunk and when we left he had to pee, So in the true north way, I pulled over, after he was done his business he laid down,(not were he peed) on the snowmobile trail and said that he was going to sleep there, He was hot and it felt nice. 

about 30 minutes passed,  I got him talked into getting back in the truck, with some help from my arm, and back to Oshawa we went. 

                                                 LOVE AT FIRST RUN OVER

 
Well I have been told to start writing a book, so this is a good place to start.
Sparky, (My husband) and I love to go camping. But in doing to so have an adventure. Stories to tell, to make people laugh, which is a great story.
right from the start of our relationship it has been adventure. To Sparky asking me out by running me over.
so let start at the start.
I can't remember the day, but it was May of sometime of 2002. I was working at acsys and i put in a move to go on a steady night job, when I was told that i got the job, i was very happy, and I remember someone saying to me, oh you have the young supervisor. I was like Who, I had not seen this boss, or heard of him, so on my first day in Jeff's area, when he came up to me, and introduced himself, i was like, wow, what a funny looking man. red hair, freckles, and funny teeth, who could have kids with him. (no i did not make this up). His first impression of me was wow, look at the fat lazy chick i get to have in my group. (again did not make this up).
I will say, I was not fat, but i hid how skinny i was, I was working out 5-6 days a week, Lost 75lbs. i wore big pants, and 2 shirts. So i always looked fat.
It took 6 months for Jeff to speak to me. If he wanted me to do something, he would tell my partner at work. then one day he came up to me, I was packing parts, and Jeff said, I like yellow and white flowers to!, I was like what, and good for you. The I found out the back of my pants, were down and I was showing off my underwear. well that how he started to talk to me.
Then it was in Mid December, when I was putting on labels on containers to be ship out, Jeff had come up to me, and asked me a question, I had 10 rows 10 high containers, and one of the top ones were falling off, I was bent down putting the labels on the bottom. when Jeff stood up, He hit the gas peddle, and ran me over. Well he jump off the cart, and picked me up, but in the way which he might not have met to, but did he pick me up, by my boobs, and the said"don't tell anyone i don't have a license to drive this cart, And then I looked down and said "well i don't think you will have to worry about that," Then Jeff said" oh my god don't tell anyone about that" I was laughing, and the best part, Jeff said to me, "well since i made it to second base, do you want to go out for supper" well How could i say no.
We still laugh about that all the time.
From that moment on we were always together, We got so along, and fell deeply in love.
We moved in about 1 month later.
And so the adventure began